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Deborah Vick
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May 05, 2024
In General Discussion
The Art of Resilience: Creative Adaptations and Joy Navigating life with EDS often requires a creative spirit. When my medical conditions shifted my physical capabilities, I was faced with the tough reality that some of my beloved art projects were no longer feasible. Instead of succumbing to frustration, I channeled my energy into exploring new forms of creativity that accommodated my changing needs. This exploration wasn't just about finding hobbies but was a crucial part of maintaining my mental health and identity. I've delved into digital art, using software that allows me to express my artistic vision without physical strain. The precision and flexibility of digital tools gave me a renewed sense of freedom—my creativity no longer had physical bounds. I have found tools that help me hold a stylus, paint brushes and even ones to help me make jewelry. With each new challenge, I find a new ways to access my creative outlets. My journey into adaptive creativity isn't just a personal victory; it's a testament to the resilience that all of us with EDS can cultivate. Every brush stroke, whether on a canvas or a screen, is a reminder that our conditions do not define our potential. The Power of Community and Family Support The road through EDS is one that should not be walked alone. Community and family stand as pillars of strength and refuge during the toughest storms. After my third cervical procedure, it was the support from my family and the broader EDS community that helped me navigate the complexities of recovery and adaptation. Their encouragement was a beacon of hope, a reminder that I wasn’t facing these challenges in isolation. Furthermore, engaging in online forums and EDS support groups has allowed me to connect with others who truly understand the intricacies of living with a rare condition. These connections are more than just a source of comfort—they're a vital resource for sharing tips, medical advice, and emotional support. It’s this powerful network that amplifies our collective voice, advocating for better research, treatment, and understanding of Ehlers-Danlos Syndrome. Acknowledging the Darkest Moments It's important to recognize that there are times when each of us wishes to throw in the towel, give up, and even stop fighting to survive. These moments can be profoundly challenging, especially when every ounce of energy is spent on seemingly simple tasks, like breathing or moving across a room. If you find yourself in one of these downward spirals, where it feels like the ground beneath you is about to crumble into the ocean, remember it's okay to take a few steps back—or even better, to leap backwards. Take care of yourself and give yourself the grace to feel all the emotions, to grieve the loss of abilities or to face challenges, whether they are temporary or long-term. Allow yourself this moment in time to feel, to be vulnerable. And when you are ready, strike your best superhero pose, let your cape flutter in the wind, and show everyone that it is possible to find a path forward, no matter how daunting it may seem. This act of resilience isn’t just about bouncing back; it’s about acknowledging the depths of our struggles and rising again with newfound strength. This is the essence of truly living with EDS—not just enduring life, but embracing it, with all its highs and lows. Celebrating Small Victories: Moments of Joy and Hope In the life of someone with EDS, the victories might seem small to the outside world, but they are monumental to us. Celebrating these moments is crucial. Whether it’s a day with less pain, completing a new art project, or simply enjoying a gathering with loved ones, these are the instances that fuel our hope and reinforce our will to persevere. Each celebration is a defiance of the limitations imposed by EDS; it’s an affirmation of life's beauty and the joys still possible despite our battles. By sharing these victories, we not only inspire others within the EDS community but also educate those outside it about the richness of our lives—beyond our medical conditions. Conclusion As we observe Ehlers-Danlos Awareness Month, let’s remember that our journey is both challenging and beautiful. We are more than our diagnosis; we are creators of joy, builders of community, and champions of resilience. It’s in sharing our stories that we find strength, and through our communities, we discover the power to not just endure but thrive. Let this post be a call to action—not only to those with EDS but to anyone facing adversity. Engage with your communities, share your stories, and celebrate every small victory. Together, we can turn the tides of struggle into waves of hope and triumph. #EhlersDanlosSyndrome, #EDSAwareness, #ChronicIllness, #InvisibleIllness, #SpoonieLife, #Resilience, #RareDisease, #DisabilityAwareness, #HealthAdvocate, #LivingWithEDS
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Deborah Vick
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Jan 05, 2024
In General Discussion
🌟 Empowerment in Unexpected Places 🌟 This hospitalization was remarkably different and uplifting. Imagine my surprise and joy when many from my medical teams actually remembered me from my previous visits! Last time, I was diligently working on a speech for Word Patient Day with International Pain Foundation (iPain) sharing stories of perseverance and hop as well as serving as a team lead for our virtual Hill Advocacy day with the Christopher and Dana Reeves Foundation. This time, I’m preparing for a Toastmasters competition, continuing my journey of inspiring through words. ✨ Connections That Transcend Time ✨ It’s not just about the medical care; it’s about the human connections. Each nurse, doctor, and staff member who recognized me didn’t just see a patient; they saw a person they had connected with, someone striving to make a difference. This recognition filled me with an indescribable warmth and validation. 🎤 From Hospital Gowns to Speaking Crowns 🎤 Despite the challenges of hospitalization, these moments of recognition turned the hospital corridors into lanes of hope and encouragement. It reminded me that our impacts echo louder than we think, and our stories can touch hearts in the most unexpected places. 🌈 Crafting Hope and Positivity 🌈 As I continue to craft my speeches for the Toastmasters competition, I carry with me the smiles and encouragement of those who remembered me. This experience isn’t just about recovery; it’s a testament to the power of human connection, hope, and the strength we find in each other. 💪 Together, We Rise 💪 Every moment, every encounter, is a chance to empower and inspire. This hospital stay wasn’t just a chapter in my medical history; it was a reaffirmation of my journey to bring mindfulness, education, and empowerment to every corner I touch. Stay tuned for more updates as I blend these experiences into my upcoming speeches. Together, we can turn even the most challenging moments into opportunities for growth and inspiration. #Empowerment #Hope #Toastmasters #PatientJourney #Mindfulness
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Deborah Vick
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Apr 01, 2023
In Living for Your Best Life
As so many who have come before, have already established, the inclusion of the Rare Patient Advocates and their voices are vital to the future of the Rare Disease Community as on the whole. For it’s these organizations that are often the thread that weaves together the medical communities, research, education awareness and even the emotional and mental wellbeing of the advocates, patients and their caregivers. These are the groups that often help those feeling unheard, marginalized and isolated feel connected, seen and heard. Rather than list the myriad of benefits our communities and the community as whole receives from the inclusion of patient advocacy organizations, let me share with you what word comes to mind when marrying Patient Advocacy and Inclusion. HOPE! HOPE, Yes, HOPE. First and foremost, HOPE means Hearing Other People’s Experiences. As we come together in the true essence of Community, We grow through Hearing of the experiences and journey’s of others. Our journey’s may differ greatly, there are however, many common themes throughout the rare disease communities. Many of these center around isolation, uncertainty, long diagnostic odyssey’s, long arduous battles with medical insurance not to mention the barriers so many of us face from medical care to community services such as schools, transportation and employment. In spite of these challenges, HOPE still comes to the surface for me, as I also see the common themes of LOVE, COMPASSION, GRATITUDE and COMMUNITY. For today, at this moment, I want to focus on this inspirational message and how patient advocacy groups are helping people not merely survive but Thrive. You may be wondering why in face of all the challenges we buttress against, is Hope one of the first words that comes to my mind when thinking of my own diagnostic and medical journey? I have Hope because, for the first time in my 30 plus years, in the medical advocacy arena, our stories, that is the stories of patients and their caregivers, are being heard and included. They are being given an unprecedented weight and the likes of which we have never seen before. Long gone are the days in which our voices were only heard in support groups and on social media. Instead, our voices are being heard in all aspects of life, from the classroom to the boardroom. Our journey, voices and experiences are taking front and center in educational, academic and legislative platforms. They are even beginning to crop up in the movie and tv industries. More so, than ever before, newly diagnosed individuals and those yet to be diagnosed are being able to connect with communities that provide access, education, mentorships and yes, even Hope. Hope for increased awareness, hope for increased inclusion and best of yet, Hope for increased quality of life. This message of hope was something I sorely lacked over 30 plus years ago, when my own diagnostic journey began. Although, as I was so recently reminded on a zoom call with the Global Genes Rare Compassion Project, the overwhelming rare disease patients still feel unheard, facing uphill battles from employment to accessing medical care and often, all too often, are still their own quarterbacks or the quarterbacks of their loved ones. We are also coming together in unprecedented ways. Ways in which we inspire, empower, uplift and educate one another. Through our shared vision of inclusion and desire to create a better world for tomorrow, we are leaning in more so than ever before to come together through communities, connections and collaborations. I leave you with this …. We Hope for a future of inclusion, of being heard and seen. A future of HOPE in which our families need not be in fear of the unknown and of the overwhelming challenges created by our complex medical conditions but rather in HOPE of future collaborations that will help us enhance our quality of life today and dare to dream of treatments on the horizon that will allow us to lead our Best Life! * Rare Compassion Project is a program run by the Global Gene’s Foundation that pairs rare disease patient advocates with medical students. Together we strive to share our journey’s and experiences in the furtherance of deepening our communication skills and experiences with our student partners.
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Deborah Vick
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CEO
Mar 19, 2023
In Living for Your Best Life
For those with chronic illnesses, the word and concept of "pacing oneself" comes up frequently. It's something I struggle with on a regular basis. Often I feel there is a great chasm separating all I wish to accomplish in relation to all I actually accomplish. Over the years, I have learned that rest and recovery is absolutely necessary. I have learned that attending a conference or event will set me back physically, that there will be down time and that there will be recovery time. For example, it has taken me over a week to recover from the Abilities Expo. That being said, attending the Abilities Expo was completely worth it. I will share more information about the Expo in future posts, for now, I am sitting back, relaxing and allowing my body to recover and heal.
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Deborah Vick
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Mar 13, 2023
In Equipment, Tools & Tech
I am being asked more and more frequently what camera & lighting equipment I use in my videography and digital platforms in addition to questions pertaining to my editing and recording software. To create great digital content we must need to take into account the whole production at a high level while paying close attention to the purpose, audience and longterm goals. In doing so we will pay close attention to lighting, camera equipment and the learning curve of respective software. The latter will be addressed in further detail in a future blog. Please note this post contains affiliate links for Amazon with the possibility of a small percentage being donated to Vicktorious, a 501(C)3 foundation. I have tried a half a dozen or more different types of desktop or table top lights in addition to my already existing slew of photography and professional photography lights. The 5 point articulating Lume Cube Articulating Arm is one of my favorites because 1) The light quality is superb 2) They can mount on the edge of a desk increasing the desk/tabletop real estate 3) They are powered by a separate power supply, which also supports power to the additional usb and usb-c port on the articulated arms 4) The light has adjustable Brightness 5) The Light Has Heat Adjustable Temperature output The Logitech Lita Beam Desktop Streaming Key Light comes in second. These lights are adjustable in that the main light bar is removable with a standard screw mounts at various angles allowing for unique adjustments in the beam location as well as adjustments in both brightness and light temperature output. The draw back with this particular light is that, although, it comes with a usb-c plug you will either need your own power supply or will need to connect the lights to your computer. (The benefit is Logitech does have an app that allows users to control the light/s from their desktop.) These are solid lights, adjustable and maneuverable. However for $20 more, you have additional power outlets, higher light output and lights with their own power supply. Personally, I prefer the later.
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Deborah Vick
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CEO
Mar 13, 2023
In General Discussion
During a recent Amazon Search, I cam across a great discovery..... More main stream Adaptive Clothing lines. With a number of pieces created for people receiving chemotherapy or infusion therapies easy to put on/remove clothing pieces. The later can be used by the individual/s with limited motor skills and/or mobility, being used post-op while in the hospital or homebound as well as clothing pieces created for ease in helping others get dressed with dignity! Please see my Amazon Affiliate Link for more information. (Vicktorious, a 501(c)3 may receive a small commission from your purchases in the embedded links. ) In terms of the fashion design itself, these range from very clinical pieces to very fashionable pieces with a line created by Tommy Hilfiger . I personally picked up a chemo/infusion shirt by PortFashion, though I definitely have my eye on a few Tommy Hilfger port access sweaters and jackets. Please see my Facebook page for a video of the PortFashion shirt. (Vicktorious, a 501(c)3 may receive a small commission from your purchases in the embedded links. )
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Feb 21, 2022
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